Mom’s Minute Monthly- eMeals

In case you missed our last MMM, we shared some great ideas as we get back into a routine now that summer has ended. One of those tips was eMeals.

eMeals is a site designed specifically for busy moms (not really, but it is super helpful!).  You can select the plan that you like (for instance, classic, kid-friendly, gluten-free, diabetic, paleo, etc) and your family size. Each Wednesday a new menu plan is emailed to you and includes recipes and a shopping list specifically for your plan. It’s wonderful! If you have a smartphone, you can download the eMeals app and it will allow you to add items to your shopping list, cross off items you already have, and if you have the classic menu plan, it will even calculate your total grocery cost for the week. It has been a huge blessing in the two weeks that I’ve used it!

I signed up for the classic plan with a family size of 3-6 (the most it would allow me to do). I then selected Publix as my grocery store. For my family of 9, I’ve been spending about $80 each week on groceries since starting the program. What I like most about eMeals is that I can preview the recipes prior to shopping so I can adjust the amount of meat I need to purchase. Plus, every meal I have prepared has been so delicious- even my kids love them! I also really like that most of the meals include fresh produce, and I am broadening my cooking skills as I prepare different recipes and dishes.

So, have I sold you on eMeals?! If so, right now if you sign up you can save 20% off a yearly subscription. The dinner-only plan is regularly $58, but when you enter code SCHOOL, you will pay only $46.40. That’s less than $4 per month for stress-free meal planning!


Overcoming Anxiety: or “How to stop feeling like you’re drowning in responsibility!”- Part 4

In this series, I will share my own struggle with constantly feeling overwhelmed and the steps I took to significantly reduce it.  This is a topic I think most moms can identify with, especially moms with young children.


So far, I have covered setting goals, implementing a schedule, and, meal planning. Regardless of the area in which you struggle, the key is to think about your thinking. Philippians 4:8 says,

Finally, brethren, whatever things are true, whatever things are noble,
whatever things are just, whatever things are pure, whatever things are lovely,
whatever things are of good report, if there is any virtue and if there is anything praiseworthy
meditate on these things.

None of my suggestions are going to completely help if you are still thinking the wrong thing. When you get your thoughts in check, act upon correct thoughts (or simply “do the right thing”), your feelings will follow. Trust me.

Managing your Home (McDonald’s Style)

Don’t get me wrong, my kids have been doing chores for years, but I often struggled in this area.  I had a difficult time enforcing chores on a regular basis because of guilt.  As a child, I had chores to do.  My mother worked and I was required to help around the house.  As I got older and the responsibility increased, I (selfishly) became angry at having to do so much.  Now, as a mom, I struggled with my own children because I didn’t want them to become resentful towards me for having to help out around the house.  It was a constant inner battle that often resulted in me trying to do everything that needed to be done…and accomplishing nothing!

One of my jobs as a wife is to be the manager of my home.  However, I didn’t know what that looked like.  It took me several years to really have a clear understanding.  I did not grow up in a house that modeled a father as the head of the home and a mother who was the manager; my mom was both!  As the manager that means meal planning, housework, laundry, child-rearing, and schooling (or homework for my children in public school) all fall on my shoulders.  It can be daunting at times, especially without help in the form of chores.  I began to pray about ways I could improve in this area, and literally one afternoon my understanding of chores (regarding why to implement them) became so clear.

My husband used to work as an assistant-manager at McDonald’s.  He is now a manager of the IT department at a local university.  He often shares some of his stories from his McDonald’s days with me (usually to make me laugh) and things he used to have to do.  I began to think about that one afternoon, and I pictured 2 scenarios in my mind.

In the first, the manager was scrambling around, trying to take customer’s orders, fill orders, run the drive-thru, and assist an employee with a problem.  The other employees were just standing around, watching him (or her) do this.  It was a chaotic scene and the atmosphere was tense, to say the least.  In the second scenario, I pictured the employees each performing their assigned duties, one taking orders, one on the drive-thru, the other cleaning tables and emptying garbage, while the manager was overseeing the employees and assisting when needed.  It was clearly a much smoother operation and had a calming atmosphere.  That’s when it hit me- my house is like that McDonald’s.  I am the manager. It’s not my job to do everything; it’s my kids’ jobs to each do their part with my help/assistance, in order for our house to function in a calm, smooth way.  And that brings us to this….

Delegate duties to kids

o   Older siblings help the younger ones
This is so important as it trains your older children to be mindful of the needs of others, as well as trains your younger children to not always come to you for everything. It also frees up much of the time spent on the “little” things.

  •   Pour drinks, get snacks, tie shoes, zip coats, etc

o   Daily room chores.
These chores never change and are the same for each child. This is for an “allowance.” I pay 25¢ for each chore, up to $1 per week day or $5 per week. Rooms are to be done before school. I check the rooms sometime during the school day and mark the child’s chart accordingly.

  •   Examples include make beds, pick up clothes, straighten up closet, etc

o   Daily house chores
This schedule rotates weekly and are not paid. These are the chores that are key to the smooth functioning of the household. All children help to the best of their ability.

  •   Examples include dishes, laundry, vacuuming, caring for pets, setting the table, etc.

o   Weekly house chores
These are age-appropriate chores that do not change and are not paid. Again, all children help but the assigned chore is based on age. My 2-year-old will wipe the glass on doors and windows, help with dusting furniture, and clean up toys.

  •   Examples include cleaning bathrooms, dusting living spaces, mopping, etc

Simplify your life

o   Say “No” to things/commitments that are not necessary

  • Overscheduling yourself and your kids has a major effect on the overall mood of your house. If you are constantly hustling and bustling to get from one activity to the next, you are bound to be frazzled, anxious, and overwhelmed.
  •   Keep in mind, things can be “good”, but not necessary (i.e. participating in Bible study, PTO)

o   Take one day off each week for rest/relaxation
For me, this is Sunday afternoon. Some Sundays are harder for me to rest than others, especially if we’ve had a busy weekend and I am behind in housework. But, taking a break for a couple hours each week helps me to re-energize and focus on the week ahead.

  •   No laundry, cleaning, grocery shopping, just simply rest!

Tips for Getting Your Family Out the Door on Time!

Guest post by Erin Bradley

This is the second post in a series written to help those who struggle to get out the door on time.  The first post contains tips to be implemented at night.

As a working mom with a swing schedule three days a week, it is imperative for my family to run as smoothly as possible.  Although I may not be able to be home some nights, or in the morning for that matter, I try to help my husband and children prepare for everything they will need for that evening or the next morning before school.  Some of my tips I have been implementing for a long time, and some I recently gathered from an amazing book I read titled The Get Yourself Organized Project: 21 Steps to Less Mess and Stress (2012) by Kathi Lipp.  When applied, they can definitely help you and your family get out the door a little quicker if your family struggles with getting to scheduled activities on time.

In the morning I try to wake up two hours before my leave time.  This gives me plenty of time to spend some alone time with God reading my Bible and devotionals while drinking coffee before really starting my day.  Quiet time with God is so crucial to the outcome of one’s day and should be made a priority. God and I time doesn’t have to take hours, even 15 minutes to half an hour can nourish your spirit and refresh your soul.  The more you learn about God, the more you learn to depend upon and trust Him in your daily struggles.

After getting myself ready, I begin the process of getting my girls ready.  A simple change that helped with my morning routine included setting out my girls’ toothbrushes, complete with toothpaste on them, so they are easily accessible when the girls come in to brush their teeth.

Another idea that has helped in my family is to stagger wake up times for the kids.  My oldest wakes up first, so she starts with breakfast.  When she finishes, I send her to the bathroom to get dressed and ready for the day.  Once completed, I get the baby up and change her diaper, have her eat breakfast, and brush her teeth all the while the oldest is making her bed and getting her shoes on.  My middle daughter loves to sleep in, so after the baby is situated, I will wake up my sleeping beauty and get her going.

After everyone is ready, I allow ten minutes just to get us all out the door and in the car.  An easy way to be sure you’re not running late is to set an alarm to signal when it’s time to begin the load up process.  If you have more than one child, then I’m sure you can relate to this exhausting process!  Our sleeping beauty runs in slow mode in the morning, so we normally get hung up waiting on her to get her coat and shoes on.  Instead of getting frustrated and making the rush more dramatic, I plan ample time for her to get herself prepared to get out the door.  I make the most of my time by buckling the other girls in the car while sleeping beauty finishes up inside.

Whether you are a stay-at-home mom or work outside the home, these simple tips can help get your morning off to a better start!

As a wife and working mother of three girls ages 6, 4, and 2, Erin Bradley enjoys embracing the many life experiences that come with raising young children.  Erin seeks to follow and serve the Lord daily while working hard to provide for the needs of her family. Finding new ways of organizing her home and simplifying different areas of her life has become one of her many passions to make more time for the important things.

Meals on a Budget- Part 1: Planning Your Menu

As a mom to a large family, I am often asked how I feed our family without breaking the bank.  Our grocery budget is $500 per month, which includes not only food, but diapers, paper goods, and personal health and beauty items.  This is the first of a 4-part series in which I will share tips, a sample menu, and recipes. In the final post. I will share about using coupons as a great way to save money each week!

First and foremost, planning is key to reducing not only costs in your food budget, but it also contributes to reduced stress. If you know in advance what you are serving for supper each night, it eliminates the “What’s for dinner?” followed by “Do I have that?” panic that often ensues.

For us, our greatest money saver is through the use of coupons, and I will share a separate post dedicated to couponing. Outside of couponing, planning your menu reduces costs because you are not buying items you already have, throwing out food that is past its expiration, or settling for fast food out of necessity.

I plan our meals a week (or more) in advance, making note of what items I’ll need from the store. You may have a different preference based on your family’s needs, but I write our meals on my calendar so that, during times of being in a “meal rut”, I can look back to the weeks or months before for meal ideas. Another suggestion is to print and laminate a blank menu and use a dry erase marker to fill it in. You can find weekly or monthly menus online, or you can use this one from Organized Home.

It sounds simple enough, but planning a menu that includes a variety of foods can be challenging, especially in a family with many tastes and preferences. One way I handle this is to allow the kids to help plan our menu. I ask each of them what they would like to eat for supper, and I get a general menu plan from their responses.

I have also recently begun teaching my boys, ages 11 and almost 9, how to plan, prepare, and serve meals. This means that they look through a cookbook to choose an entree and use the ingredients in the recipe to go through the pantry and refrigerator to create a grocery list. I also assign them a night to prepare their meal based on our schedule and my availability to assist them.  I typically do not schedule them to cook on nights we are pressed for time.  However, exceptions are made if it is a recipe they have made before or if I am confident they can prepare the meal independently.  Implementing this skill is invaluable to me as a busy mom: I get a couple of nights “off” in the kitchen and they are gaining a needed skill!

Below is a sample menu for my family. I follow three steps in finalizing it.  Step 1: I ask my kids and husband for their input. Step 2: I take stock of the items currently in my refrigerator and freezer. I often purchase my meats in bulk while on sale, so this step is a MUST in order to keep food waste to a minimum. Step 3: I inventory my dry and canned goods. My final menu plan includes the main dish and side items. Doing all of the above helps me to stay within my budget.






Cereal, Oatmeal, Pancakes PB & J, Party Tray, Yogurt Tacos, refried beans, rice




Lemon pepper chicken, roasted potatoes, green beans




Homamade Tomato Soup, grilled cheese




White Chicken lasagna, rolls




Hamburgers, potato wedges, corn




Chinese chicken, egg rolls